This year, with Viv at the middle school, the kids leave on separate buses. Vivienne dutifully bundles up to make her way across to the bus stop at 6:59 (!) each morning, then I get a quiet hour with Hugh before the grade school bus arrives. It feels a bit like that final pre-K year … Continue reading Wait With Me
Category: Family
COVID-19: Vivienne’s Take
I was reminded recently that the point of a blog (or at least this one) is to write the family memories down lest we forget them. This is a thing I haven't done during the entirety of the COVID-19 pandemic, the beginning of which coincided with my sudden heart issues, and throughout which we survived … Continue reading COVID-19: Vivienne’s Take
Valentine’s Cookie Decorating Party
Vivienne is seven! Her birthday lined up with our February vacation week trip to Phoenix, so this year, we decided to throw her a party early and take advantage of Valentines Day with a cookie decorating theme party. Hearts, sprinkles, and unlimited frosting... what more could a seven year old want? This was our first … Continue reading Valentine’s Cookie Decorating Party
In Development
In the process of packing up our house these last weeks, I've read through several of my old journals and was struck by this particular entry, written during Vivienne's toddler years. She has always brought me so much joy, but the transition to motherhood was hard for me. This brief entry so concisely captured that … Continue reading In Development
A Time for Everything
The other day, I overheard Vivienne say, "Hey Hugh, did you know there's a time for everything in life?" It was somehow both whimsical and instructional, and Hugh, with an appropriately serious nod, played along like he totally got it. Little ears are clearly picking up on the underlying vibe around here... There is, indeed, a … Continue reading A Time for Everything
A Morning Off
The last few weeks feel a bit like a blur of work. We're in the midst of selling our house, so all the projects, paperwork, and anxiety that go along with that have been piled right onto our already full plates. It's nose to the grind time, that's for sure! Ryan returned from a trip … Continue reading A Morning Off
Engaged on the 4th of July
Eight years ago today, on a similarly sweltering 4th of July, Ryan tricked me into going on a picnic and popped the question.He made a first attempt at lunchtime, but I protested, given the heat, so he endured an air conditioned lunch with a diamond ring burning a hole in his pocket. We went to … Continue reading Engaged on the 4th of July
Vivi Update
Happy Thanksgiving, friends! We're in full holiday-prep mode over here, with pie dough chilling, multiple cranberry sauces simmering, and decorating projects underway. Vivienne just came home from school with a paper turkey adorned with words of thanks, among them: comfy bed and "Hugh Bear." The simplicity of her gratitude is always a good dose of … Continue reading Vivi Update
Hugh
Hugh is 16 months now. He's a blur of movement, a chattering, singing, hollering fellow, and it feels like he's got one foot in babyhood and one in full blown kid-dom. Here's a handful of little things that really seem to capture the moment: Lately, we're hearing a lot of Hugh's suddenly clear-as-a-bell, almost incredulous, … Continue reading Hugh
Interview with a Kindergartener
Wednesday was the the big day: kindergarten. Vivienne was equal parts nerves and excitement as we talked (and talked and talked) about this big new step. What if no one likes me? What if I forget and can't write my name? What if my feet walk the wrong way and I get lost? As with most … Continue reading Interview with a Kindergartener